Tuesday, January 29th, 2019
If you want to attract the romantic attention of someone you need to know how to flirt. The English dictionary defines flirting as “Behaving in a way as though you are sexually attracted to someone”.
Flirting is normally initially non-verbal and it is how humans interact with their potential partners and how we interact with each other. Flirting serves as a way for you to express interest in someone and is something that happens before a relationship can be formed.
In order to flirt successfully you need feel good about yourself – if you feel attractive others will be attracted to you.
Make eye contact and smile – If you smile it make others feel you are a warm friendly human being and open to their attentions.
Observe their body language – This always speaks first in any conversation and be confident. When you are confident your body relaxes, you lean in, you smile, and you become more animated. When you are tense or not at ease with yourself, you will be sitting back, crossing your legs, maybe your arms are folded, your mouth will barely break a smile. Knowing this will help you convey confidence with your body language.
Relax and have fun! – Be lighthearted, funny, and entertaining. Make this person eager to talk to you again. Flirting is being playful.
Give out genuine compliments – And do it often. When you make someone feel good about themselves this person will want to spend more time with you and if he/she pays you a compliment, say thank you. Don’t be self-depreciating.
Listen and pay attention – Pay attention to what they have to say and ask appropriate questions. Get them to open up and talk about themselves. Be sincerely interested.