The better you understand yourself, the more likely you will be to achieve your New Year resolutions. Past failures, of all sorts, will help you understand decisions you have made that were wrong for you. Consider not only at what brought you to make them, but also where they led you. Past successes…
Intimacy in relationships is a worthy topic, because the capacity for intimacy is the key to long term commitment. It concerns the closeness of two individuals. To achieve it, you will need to be willing to trust each other, be open and vulnerable. There are four common types of intimacy: Emotional – sharing and…
If you are not currently in a relationship but would like to be, whether or not you envisage having children, there are certain things you can do to increase the chance of that relationship lasting. My advice applies equally to men and women, in all types of romantic relationships. If this is of…
Mature women are quite something aren’t they? They have their own opinions, values and beliefs and they are confident and comfortable with who they are. Men looking to date can find them intimidating, but it need not be so if you consider this advice: What women at this stage are seeking is someone…
I recently discovered how long it takes to form a friendship on average and I was surprised. 40-80 hours for an acquaintance 80 – 100 hours for a casual friendship 200+ hours for a close friendship Wow – who knew? Friendship is defined as caring for another for the sake of that person and…
It can be hard to be sure that the person you have fallen for is a ‘keeper’, especially if, despite your feelings, something holds you back. It could be that you have only ever dated one type and even though the one under consideration ticks all your boxes, you know that in the past…
It is an interesting exercise to consider how certain hobbies reveal particular traits in participants – if you look at someone sporty as a potential romantic partner for instance, this is what you might find: 1 Good timekeeping – you can neither be late for a round of golf, a tennis match nor…
Daters are turning away from the online options. Finding the right partner is one of life’s greater challenges and worth your effort and investment. Where should you be looking? Let’s look at some of the things you would be wise to consider before making your choice. Dating Apps Dating apps require little information, personal or…
At last – the evenings are long and light and the sun is shining. It’s the best time of year to find romance. This year we have the added bonus of a very long weekend to celebrate Her Majesty the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee and there will be street parties and events all over the…
With the prospect of warmer weather, at Sara Eden our thoughts turn to suggestions as to where you might invite your date. It’s wise to decide what impression you want to make. I’m concentrating on the most likely option this time, but of course there are many more and I may return to this…
If you are considering joining a matchmaking agency in the near future it is worth taking a moment to consider these key points. They will help you understand what to expect so that you can get the very best from what is an exciting adventure – the chance to meet like minded individuals…
Easter is a time to pause. Life has been pell mell since New Year, light levels and temperatures have been low and the desire for the new has understandably been lacking. Now the evenings are lighter and with the prospect of a long weekend ahead it’s time to exhale and relax. Pretty much everyone…
After two years of Covid you may feel that’s your main topic of conversation and if you haven’t been out and about as much as before (surprise!) you may be feeling a little wary about meeting someone new with a view to starting a relationship. Here are a few things to bear in mind:…
Grieving is a process that requires time, it cannot and must not be rushed. At Sara Eden we meet people every day who have processed the loss of a partner and feel they are ready to embark on the next phase in their lives with someone new. When we meet them initially, we have…
You have chosen a profile; the connection has been made and you have spoken to your date and arranged to meet up. The date is in five days’ time. So far, so good. Now it’s the day before and neither you nor your date has reached out via text yet, so who should…
Maintaining your sense of self is certainly the easier option. Aim for balance. Have an agenda of your own that is flexible enough to allow you to keep up with the friends and activities that you enjoyed prior to the start of your relationship, but leaves enough time for the two of you to…
Many daters fear losing their sense of self when they are in a relationship and if they see signs that is happening can give up too quickly. Some people, who have already experienced this, shy away from dating altogether for fear of doing so. Healthy relationships rely on both parties continuing to operate…
Reading an article about manifestation recently, I asked myself if this might be a tool of use in the arsenal of those looking for love, or just magical thinking for the I-should-get-what-I-want-brigade. Can we wish love into our lives or is that a dangerous thing to attempt? Be Careful What You Wish For We…
If you are single, make 14th February 2022 the day you tell yourself that things must change. You’ve been through a lot in the last 22 months, professionally and personally and it is time that you found that special person who will make all the difference in the world to your future. You already…
It’s a worrying fact that dating fraud scams are on the rise. Mind you, it is hardly surprising, given that we are all susceptible to magical beliefs when it comes to love. Those of us who live alone have experienced significant social isolation during the pandemic could be especially at risk. What can we…
Latest research has revealed the impact of the pandemic on those looking for love.While this is research from the world of online dating, we anticipate that some of the trends identified are pertinent the the arena of elite dating agencies too. Fast-Forwarding: This heralds a much more realistic and achievable shift in expectations and…