You have chosen a profile; the connection has been made and you have spoken to your date and arranged to meet up. The date is in five days’ time. So far, so good. Now it’s the day before and neither you nor your date has reached out via text yet, so who should…
Maintaining your sense of self is certainly the easier option. Aim for balance. Have an agenda of your own that is flexible enough to allow you to keep up with the friends and activities that you enjoyed prior to the start of your relationship, but leaves enough time for the two of you to…
Many daters fear losing their sense of self when they are in a relationship and if they see signs that is happening can give up too quickly. Some people, who have already experienced this, shy away from dating altogether for fear of doing so. Healthy relationships rely on both parties continuing to operate…
Reading an article about manifestation recently, I asked myself if this might be a tool of use in the arsenal of those looking for love, or just magical thinking for the I-should-get-what-I-want-brigade. Can we wish love into our lives or is that a dangerous thing to attempt? Be Careful What You Wish For We…
If you are single, make 14th February 2022 the day you tell yourself that things must change. You’ve been through a lot in the last 22 months, professionally and personally and it is time that you found that special person who will make all the difference in the world to your future. You already…
It’s a worrying fact that dating fraud scams are on the rise. Mind you, it is hardly surprising, given that we are all susceptible to magical beliefs when it comes to love. Those of us who live alone have experienced significant social isolation during the pandemic could be especially at risk. What can we…
Latest research has revealed the impact of the pandemic on those looking for love.While this is research from the world of online dating, we anticipate that some of the trends identified are pertinent the the arena of elite dating agencies too. Fast-Forwarding: This heralds a much more realistic and achievable shift in expectations and…
Christmas 2021 is almost here! At Sara Eden we are hoping that it is going to be an especially wonderful festive season this year, after all we have endured in the last 18 months. This is what we want Santa to bring you: 1 Optimism for the Future It’s been bleak, but it can…
Trust is a MUST in a relationship. It does not matter whether you are talking about being faithful, financial matters or simply sticking to promises. If you cannot trust your partner your relationship will never work long-term. There are lots of reasons why you cannot trust someone. They have been unfaithful or untrustworthy in the…
The number of times I have heard “We had been dating for a few of years, then my partner announced he didn’t want children. It was something we never really spoke about, and I just assumed being the same age we would get round to having a family one day in the future”. Or,…
I am forever surprised at just how many intelligent people keep making the same dating mistakes time after time. If your ex was a disaster surely, you would steer clear from anyone who reminded you of them. Perhaps your ex was possessive, jealous, and overly controlling so you ended the relationship. If you can…
It may be just wishful thinking on my part but on my morning walk yesterday the signs of spring were definitely in the air, it was a joy to see the first signs of leaves becoming greener, a few flowers brave enough to go into bud, feeling the sun on my face and the…
If your partner doesn’t care about you at the start of your relationship things will only get worse. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can change them or that moving in together, getting married or even having a family will make things better, they won’t. People don’t change, so don’t put yourself down by…
Now is the time to realign your expectations and your approach to dating. Ditching the behaviours and thoughts that are holding you back will open up new options for you to explore. Follow your instincts from there – you’re already on the right road to true happiness. To position yourself better, I recommend…
This time last year, we would have thought it beyond possible and yet here we are again. The hamster wheel of life is on endless repeat and opportunities to meet new people can feel like a dream that is beyond reach. Change will come though, it is inevitable. Not knowing when that will be,…
This is your most important consideration, if you want to have a deep and meaningful relationship with your partner. The space you create has to be for him/her alone. Success depends on you never, ever, sharing it with anyone else. Take Your Time and Focus Your Full Attention This will pay off. Relationships need nourishment,…
This is the time of year when we start thinking about the future and this year more than ever people will be thinking how different their lives will be in 2021. So, it’s time to take control of your future, we all get affected by the up’s and downs of life and some of us…
If you are an early adopter you are likely to be drawn to new concepts that stretch the boundaries of the known. You are adventurous, not risk averse, intuitive and you like to break new ground. Sara Eden is one too. 33 years ago, hardly anyone met through introduction agencies – it was…
Dear Single Person, You are not alone! There are many who just like you would prefer to be in a loving and supportive relationship right now. The UK has 7.7 million single person households – that’s what I call potential! Now is definitely not the time to give up hope. Living alone has lots…
We all have times when we can’t work out exactly how someone we know is feeling. It’s okay as an occasional thing, but if it keeps happening there is a simple solution you might want to try. It’s nothing to do with the other person offering you a spontaneous explanation – if you really want…
If you are single just now and would rather not be, you are probably feeling somewhat despondent. With all the anxiety around work, the health of vulnerable friends and family, on top of your own, the prospect of being alone now heaps on more misery. But, your single status is not something you should…